What is a guilt complex?

The Burden of Excessive Guilt

Guilt is one of the most universal human emotions. It tells you that you have done something that clashes with your values, and in small doses it is genuinely useful. It is the feeling that prompts you to apologise, to make amends, to do better next time. But for some people, guilt does not come […]

What causes low self-esteem, and how can you raise it?

Low Self-Esteem and Self-Criticism

Most people go through patches of feeling less confident. A setback at work, a difficult comment from someone you care about, a stretch of bad luck. Usually the feeling passes. But for some people, low self-esteem is not a phase. It is a constant, quiet voice that says you are not good enough, and it […]

Where does possessiveness in relationships come from?

What possessiveness can feel like

Most people have felt a flicker of possessiveness at some point in a relationship. A pang when a partner mentions a new colleague, a tightening in the chest when they go out without you, a quiet urge to check their phone. In small doses, it can feel like caring. But when it becomes a pattern, […]